結婚是人生大事,至於是否擺酒那就見人見智。最近有網民在網上發起討論,現今世代是否仍然流行「結婚要擺酒」?引起不少網民留言分享看法,認為有5大原因決定是否擺酒,當中最多人認為「開支」是擺酒最首要考慮的條件之一,亦有人指曾見過親友為擺酒借貸等,直言無必要。不過,都有人認為如果堅持傳統,仍會因為長輩壓力大搞婚宴。
結婚擺唔擺酒?網民力數5大擺酒/唔擺酒原因
拍拖是兩個人的事,但步入談婚論嫁階段,新人對於是否擺酒的看法都各有不同,尤其是面對傳統觀念或長輩壓力時,就變作兩個家庭的事,是不少新人苦惱的問題之一。近日有網民透過連登討論區發帖,以「宜家仲興唔興結婚要擺酒」為題,詢問廣大網友的看法,其中大部分人留言都表示,現時身邊很多人都選擇不擺酒。
樓主亦表明自己立場,認為「其實簽張紙,影下結婚相咪算囉」,不理解為何要擺酒?有網民續分享:「我朋友冇擺酒,去影張團體相,然後walkin入間貴些少嘅餐廳食飯」、「好多人都唔擺啦」。
結婚擺酒開支龐大:根本係畀長輩威
綜合網民留言,本文整合擺酒及不擺酒的5大原因,當中不擺酒主要因為開支費用龐大,以及「做Show」居多。
新人唔擺酒原因【1】開支費用龐大
新人唔擺酒原因【2】流於「做Show」
新人響應傳統擺酒 網民:滿足四大長老
不過現今世代仍有不少新人堅持傳統擺酒,但多數網民認為並非自願,主要是為了滿足長輩或另一半的要求,部分則為面子工程而大搞擺酒;亦有人認為「擺酒係值架,係用來畀佢(對方)記住結婚果一日」。
新人擺酒原因【1-3】堅持傳統觀念、面子工程、滿足雙方意願
有過來人留言分享,指自己當年結婚總數花費60萬元,指「直到而家諗返(錢財)直頭不值一提,亦都完全無後悔過」。大家又點睇呢?
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