即使係再熟嘅知己朋友,但有啲心事你始終唔敢講出口

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2016.04.21

文: 熱豆腐仔

或者曾經受過傷,都不自覺地學識保護自己
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喺朋友面前,你就只能笑著回避,裝作沒事
但其實千言萬語,卻不知從何說起..

「點呀?呢排都無見你update fb ig嘅,搞咩呀?」

「無乜野咪唔post..」

「仲係為左佢唔開心?」

「傻啦haha..點會..」

一切,你其實都心知肚明。
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有時其實你好想搵一個傾訴對象,但始終你覺得比人知道太多自己嘅事,就好似有痛腳比人攞住一樣

普通朋友當然唔會講啦,但有時就連好熟嘅兄弟或者姊妹都唔敢講太多..
可能你都仍然相信佢唔會講出去,又或者你都知道佢可能幫到你..但最後你仍然選擇將說話收埋深深處,永久保存

呢件事,或者就只有你..同佢知道..
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正常人好地地其實唔會咁大疑心、咁唔相信人,通常咁樣做嘅...或者都係曾經受過傷害,俾人出賣過、遺棄過先會咁有自我防衛意識。

或者你好怕比人當作茶餘飯後嘅話題,因為你知道一切一切嘅傳聞、閒言閒語只會令自己更加困擾。

自此,你決定唔再同任何人透露自己最真嘅一面。
慢慢地,就好似自我封閉一樣..
外人睇你或者好似無變過一樣,但如果真係熟識你嘅人..又點會唔知你嘅改變

「無事無事」

其實又點會無事..
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現實社會爾虞我詐,或者,要搵到一個你相信嘅人真係好難。

如果搵到一個值得你信賴嘅人,就真係要好好珍惜。
相信你亦明白到,呢種信任真係得來不易...
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P.S 有幾耐無試過將埋藏已久嘅心事同人傾訴?

 

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