林芊妤回應網民8大指控唔識教仔 Coffee千字文解釋主張放養育兒手法:這是做媽媽後學會的堅持

文: Ling Kwok
2021.06.11

林芊妤(Coffee)近年在社交平台上大受歡迎,她所設立YouTube Channel教人做瑜伽,已帶來了可觀收入。同時,自從她誕下仔仔「瞿伯伯」後,經常在IG大曬親子日常,充滿溫情之外更受網民歡迎。

雖然Coffee與兒子「瞿伯伯」感情甚佳,但網民對她的教仔手法有所質疑,例如:帶仔仔行山、要兒子自己食飯、要他幫忙做家務、任由他走來走去、撞到自己、亂愛脾氣、要他自己穿衣服穿鞋子、變瘦等。

Coffee早前對這些指控作出了回應,她表示這些評論都是出於好心,所以會好好去解釋。她說:「我從不會去批評別人的一套,但我的教育方法就是放養」選擇放養的背後原因,源於Coffee知道要在真實世界生存完全不容易,加上男生競爭更大,所以「期望他長大後能照顧到自己,學會獨立學會負起自己責任,學會失敗跌倒並不可怕,而不是將來還回來埋怨我,為什麼長大後就要他獨自面對一切。」

她自言不是一個稱職的媽媽,但Coffee希望可以將自己所經歷教給仔仔,直言:「其實要放手比起出手幫他,更困難更花時間更麻煩,不過我深信現在不好好讓他跌,將來受苦的就是他。」Coffee明白家長的壓力大,照顧小孩要面對不同眼光,但她覺得沒關係,「只要認為是對小孩好的,我們哪怕與世界為敵,這就是做媽媽後學會的堅持。」

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